Never Give Up!By James GunterJames 5:16 – Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much. (NKJV)If you are a believer, you understand that God the Father has such a tremendous love for people that He sent His one and only Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for our sins. I just wonder how many earthly fathers have some wonderful attributes and we miss out on them because we don't take the time to get to know them. To know and understand God better, we have to spend time with Him. It is the same for our earthly relationships. Why don't we take the time to get to know our earthly fathers? Could it be that we take them for granted?
I can't spend time with my father because he died when I was only five years old. The only two memories I have of him are when I was about five years old. I'll never forget either of these memories. Every time I see a stick of Juicy Fruit gum, I am reminded of the first moment etched into my memory. I was playing in the living room that was just off our foyer when I heard my dad come in the front door. As he walked by the room, I heard him ask, “Son, would you care for a stick of gum?”
In my mind, I can still see the scene just as vividly as the day it occurred. My father’s right hand was extended from the sleeve of his dark jacket, holding a bright yellow wrapper between his forefinger and his thumb. Reaching up from my half-kneeling position, I took the gum and thanked him. What a sweet memory that is.
Unfortunately, the next memory I can picture of my dad is when I saw his casket in the corner of that very same room in 1958 when he passed away. It wasn't uncommon for the viewing of the deceased to be in the person's home during that era. I remember the flowers (as a matter of fact, I can almost smell their pleasant aroma as I write this article) displayed all around, and I remember feeling a sense of emptiness.
Later in life, my mom would share things about my dad that I never knew. She would share how he cursed her for her faith in God throughout their marriage, how he refused to acknowledge there was a God, and his eventual surrender to the Lord due to her perseverance in praying for him. She shared with me that he eventually came to her and asked that she baptize him in the bathtub. In the end, he realized that he needed this same Jesus that he had cursed for so long and that he didn't want to go to hell. This would turn out to be his last night on earth.
What an incredible Father we serve! He understood the heartache my mom would endure if my dad had died without Christ in his life, and God honored her prayers.
Don’t ever give up praying for your loved ones. Just keep praying.